How does one succeed in life?

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Is it true that people who are possessed by demons cannot see them until the demon is cast out? What is the reason for this?

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

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That's it for today.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Do not set goals—set systems.

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Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Procrastinates a lot.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

What are some cute picnic ideas for a romantic date?

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

What I need from you?

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

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Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Making more friends is a goal.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

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Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

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Saving $10,000 is a goal.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Can you explain the concept of an annulment of marriage in the Roman Catholic Church and its effects on a previous marriage?

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Why do people have trouble accepting the very true fact that "The Blue Marble" photo of Earth is a composite and therefore (just like every other subsequent "picture" of Earth NASA has ever shown us) not a real photo but computer generated?

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

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Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

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Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Does not procrastinate.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Have you ever forcibly sucked someone’s dick?

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Family scapegoats with years of healing: what events or thoughts precipitated your full acceptance of your family's narcissistic dynamic? Can you share your inner thoughts as you reached it? How do we know when we have reached full acceptance?

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Hangs out with loser friends.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

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Ask yourself:

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

What are some reasons why men may not want to date a woman who can pay her own bills?

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?